The role of self-esteem in human life

Many psychological traumas are formed from deep childhood, when, as a very young child, my mother took us in her arms and read or sang something. Mothers whispered to some children in their infancy that "he is her best, and she loves him no matter what he is." Such people have had the right attitude towards themselves since childhood. Another thing. That if this thought starts to go off scale, a person can begin to feel better than others or, in general, stop developing in any plans. And always stay the way he is. After all, he is already loved. Those people who have an incorrect assessment of the situation and they are constantly engaged in self-flagellation and self-accusation, it is hard for them to live. Every time they feel guilty or unworthy. They look for and find pitfalls in any service that is provided to them. It's hard for such people to find a common language. People inside themselves feel some kind of tense and sometimes a little negative attitude towards them, and many even begin to defend themselves. defend yourself instinctively. After all, each of us has our own problems and "cockroaches" in our heads. People with low self-esteem, in turn, begin to think that the whole world is so bad, and there is no truth in it. Thus, the situation is getting worse. In the case of self-esteem, it is very important to keep an average understanding and awareness of yourself and the world around you. It is necessary to clearly separate those shortcomings and hindrances in life and in oneself that can be corrected by a person and that cannot be corrected. For example, a person is silent. If this prevents him from really living, interferes with everyday normal life, then this problem should be solved somehow. Trainings, seminars, visits to a psychologist, communicate more live, make new acquaintances. But if it doesn't bother him so much to live, you can put up with it and quite revere it as even a big plus. Many interlocutors value the ability to listen, and not constant chatter. It is very important at the initial level to realize yourself as you are. And gradually change those qualities. Which, in your opinion, are a hindrance to life. Every day, a little bit, changing for the better. Thus, a goal is found, every day is a new step towards the goal. Very often, having achieved any improvements in their character, people realize that this is not enough for them, and, in general, everything will not be enough, even if he becomes perfect. It is very important here to find self–love, the right love, without a selfish inclination. In these cases, psychologists often help to sort themselves out by providing professional help and support. escortannonce.net/escorts/geneve/